Fat experiences

yup! you've got ED! loooong before you should have! that's what happens when you get to be as fat as you are. Better get used to it because I don't see any turning back on your part.

This isn't helpful advice. You can have ED at any size for any number of reasons. Most of them are 100% treatable. Just gotta talk to your doctor about what treatment plan is right for you.

I can relate. I have a diagnosed ED and take meds when I want to get hard. I felt bad for my wife when it first started, but like you, my brain kind of “enjoyed” the floppy dick half buried in fat. My ED is weight related and I think that was “exciting” to me.